在應酬的場合，要有擦亮慧眼，明確識人的能耐，抓住種種跡象，分辨出某人是否值得我們深交和合作。雖說害人之心不可有，但是防人之心，則萬萬不可無。對於一些人的表現，我們應該時刻提防。比如，平時特別老實本分、隨和大度的人，喝醉了之後，就可能表現得完全相反，做出讓人不能理解的事情來了。或者，他們會變得衝動，想著了魔一般，不知不覺地呈現出另一種面貌，讓人摸不著頭腦。對於這些人，應該要特別的注意。
1）喝了酒就哭／
有些人喝了點酒，就開始訴說叨念傷心事，不是流淚就是歎氣，最後失去控制，讓飯局成了他的訴苦大會。別人好心地反覆勸慰，往往起不多大作用，哭夠了，他們就自動停止了。其實這種人生活得並不痛苦，然而喝了幾杯酒，言談之中勾起他的傷心往事，在酒精的促使下，攪了大家的氣氛，變成自己的情緒抒發大會了。
2）笑面虎／
飯局笑面虎是很常見的，這種雙面人，臉上是笑，背後是刀。嘴上勸你多喝兩杯，實質上是想看你的笑話。和這些人打交道，不過逢場作戲而已，千萬別認真。具體來說，笑面虎有兩種表現特徵：
1）這種人總是一本正經特嚴肅，跟你談論事情時，很容易讓人信以為真。但其實，他的內心正哈哈大笑呢！
2）他們對人的態度常常是溫和親切，表現得特別為你著想。實際上，對你的關心都是偽裝。這種人的話，是不能當真的，看過聽過之後趕快忘掉，裝沒聽見就好了，因為他一定兌現不了。
3）行為失控／
這類型的人在喝酒前，待人接物還是十分的周到穩重。但一旦酒喝開了，便不能自制了，先是失控於酒量，後是失控於言行。這種時候千萬別沾惹上身。他們就等著想找點事來拗，如果真讓他們碰到了，就會立刻拉下臉面，借酒發威，回他幾句就會招惹到他。再失控下去的結果，不是杯摔桌翻，就是大動干戈。
就算平時是好朋友，他也非跟你動手較量不可。這種人容易在喝酒場合失去了理智，過後卻不清楚當時的情景，到了第二天後悔莫及，趕緊找機會認錯，並發誓從此滴酒不沾。但是，平靜幾天之後，若是又到了有機會喝酒的應酬場合，通常又會照犯同樣的毛病。如果不小心碰到這類人，還是躲開為妙。
4）喜歡批評人／
常常有人多喝幾杯酒下肚後，便開始忘形，開始莫名的訓斥別人，這樣看不慣，那也不順眼。這時如果有人同時也酒性大發，與他叫陣，結果將一發不可收拾。不但會攪壞了氣氛，弄得全場人十分尷尬，關係也搞僵了。
5）表現欲高人一等／
在一般情況下，這類型的人通常人緣特別好，辦事能力也頗強，可說是八面玲瓏的人，也常是野心比較大的人。但是一遇到酒精的催化，他們興致就上來了，變大大地湧起強烈的表現欲，不該說的話搶著說，不該喝的酒搶著喝，好像整場都變成他們的舞臺，自己是舞臺的總指揮。他們不但在飯局上大展口才
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In the occasion of socializing, we must have a bright eye, a clear understanding of the human ability, and seize the signs to distinguish whether someone is worthy of our deep friendship and cooperation. Although the heart of the victim cannot be, but the heart of the person is indispensable. For some people's performance, we should always be on guard. For example, people who are usually very honest and easy-going, when they are drunk, may behave in the opposite direction and make things that are incomprehensible. Or, they will become impulsive, think of the devil, and unwittingly present another look, which makes people feel puzzled. For these people, special attention should be paid.
1) Cry when drinking wine /
Some people drank a little wine and began to complain about mourning and sorrow, not to shed tears, and finally to lose control, so that the dinner became his complaint meeting. Others kindly resolutely persuade, often do not play much role, cry enough, they automatically stop. In fact, this kind of person does not have a pain in life. However, after drinking a few glasses of wine, his sadness is evoked in the conversation. Under the urging of alcohol, the atmosphere of everyone has been stirred up and turned into a meeting of their own emotions.
2) Smile face tiger /
It is very common to smile at the dinner party. This double-faced person has a smile on his face and a knife on his back. Advise you to drink two more cups, in fact, want to see your jokes. Deal with these people, but just play on the spot, don't be serious. Specifically, the smiling face tiger has two performance characteristics:
1) This kind of person is always serious and serious. When talking about things with you, it is easy to make people believe it. But in fact, his heart is laughing!
2) Their attitude towards people is often gentle and affectionate, especially for your sake. In fact, your concern for you is camouflage. This kind of person's words can't be taken seriously. After reading it, I will forget it quickly. I can't hear it, because he must not cash it.
3) Behavior is out of control /
This type of person is still very thoughtful and steady before drinking. But once the wine is drunk, it can't be made. First, it is out of control, and then it is out of control. Don't get caught up in this time. They just waited for something to come. If they really let them meet, they will immediately pull down their faces and use alcohol to make a fuss. When he returns to him, he will be provoked. The result of losing control again is not a cup-down table, but a big move.
Even if he is a good friend, he is not going to compete with you. This kind of person is easy to lose his senses in drinking, but later he is not clear about the scene at the time. After the next day, he regrets, and quickly finds the opportunity to admit the mistake and swears that he will not drink. However, after a few days of calm, if you come to an entertainment occasion that has the opportunity to drink, you will usually commit the same problem. If you accidentally touch such a person, it is better to avoid it.
4) Like to criticize people /
Often when someone drinks a few glasses of wine, they begin to forget the shape and begin to inexplicably reprimand others. This is not pleasing to the eye, and it is not pleasing to the eye. At this time, if someone is also a big wine, and he is called, the result will be out of control. Not only will it ruin the atmosphere, but the audience will be very embarrassed and the relationship will be stiff.
5) Performance is superior to first class /
Under normal circumstances, this type of person is usually very popular and has a strong ability to work. It can be said to be a slick person, and often a person with a big ambition. However, when they encounter the catalysis of alcohol, they are excited to come up, and they have a strong desire for expression. If they shouldn’t say something, they should rush to say that they should not drink the wine, as if the whole scene has become their stage. I am the chief conductor of the stage. They not only show their enthusiasm in the dinner
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